Time is right to talk about preventing drug use

Drug prevention experts recommend guardians talk about risks associated with underage alcohol and marijuana use with kids on a regular basis. They suggest you don’t make it "one big scary conversation" but, use everyday occasions. When watching TV, during commercials, news stories and movies, pause to talk about the messages displayed. Having conversations early with children builds an understanding of what your expectations are as they become more independent. Provide facts about what alcohol and other drug use can do to their precious developing brains. As caregivers, we are the protective voice that wards off danger during adolescence. Even when youth resist our cautions, (as their brains are wired to oppose authority during healthy maturation) stand firm and remember, that as parents and caregivers, our expectations are the reason most kids choose not to drink or use other drugs. Because alcohol is part of our culture, our voices are one of the only defenses that kids have providing a more balanced view. Youth get the message loud and clear from the alcohol industry and also, now, from marijuana use proponents. If we are not, then, who is providing the alternative prevention messages? Even after they leave for college, it's a good idea to talk about protecting their brain. After all, we want children to grow to be successful, happy and free of substance use disorders. If you are not sure how early, when or how often to have or start conversations, check out www.parentadvicenj.org for suggestions. It may seem difficult at first, but, kids appreciate the truth. Giving them the facts about alcohol, marijuana and brain science helps provide what they need to make better decisions — just like making sure they are getting enough sleep, exercising regularly and eating healthy foods. Learn much more at www.centerforprevention.org.

Annmarie Shafer
Coalition Coordinator

The Center for Preention and Counseling